The Desire Map

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Clare_Lavender Danielle LaportHow Do You Want To Feel?

Do you feel free?  Joyful?  Connected?

Most importantly, does your life feel the way you want it to feel?

Do you spend so much time doing what is expected of you, that you just end up feeling resentful and frustrated?

When I read The Desire Map by Danielle LaPorte for the first time, my life was not feeling the way I wanted it to or the way I had once hoped.

desire_600x600_1 Danielle LaPorteI had spent so many years trying to be perfect in every way, constantly aiming to please people and keep everyone happy.  In the end, it didn’t serve me at all well.  Despite my best intentions, my life crumbled down around me.  I was left with feeling sort of numb, lost and losing all sense of purpose.  Even when I was setting and achieving goals,  any sense of accomplishment was short lasting.

This book isn’t just intellectual theory. It actually walks you through the process of practically (+ soulfully) creating a life that you actually want to live, connected to people, experiences and things that you actually want to be connected to.

It seems so obvious, right?

Of course! My life should feel good!

But the thing is, so many of us aren’t living that way. We’re fixated on what others think we should do. We live so much of our lives out of a sense of obligation. We’re pushing ourselves to meet the expectations of others being the great mum, the successful business woman, the patient and doting wife, the forgiving friend.

And in all that striving to meet other people’s expectations, a lot of us have lost ourselves completely. For a while, I know I certainly did.

The Desire Map helped me in so many ways to get me back on my own life track.  This became an important tool for me when my life seemed to be crumbling around me.   It helped in supporting me, at a time when I was turning my life around.

When I heard that Danielle was creating a Licensing program, so that people could teach this material, I was one of the first people at the front of the line.  The Desire Map fits so well in with my own coaching programme for divorcing or divorced women.

And so I am thrilled to be an official Desire Map Licensee.

Having facilitated workshops, I am pleased to announce that I am now offering one-on-one coaching, in person and via phone or skype. 

 If you would like more information, please contact me at – for more details.

It’s never too late to live a life that feels good. A life that you consciously choose, define and design, and based on your own core desired feelings.  It takes work and practise but it is possible.

I’d like to help you uncover those feelings so you can start building a life that helps you generate them.

Clare xxx

The Desire Map with Bunnies

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